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Registered: 10-09-2004
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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 11:36pm
I;m falling for the worst person ever.... i've liked him alot for a few months now.. since before summer and the first time he got a gf he started to act differently and after they broke up he told me that he liked me.. then he got another gf or what he said was a person he was ''seeing'' but was not a girlfriend well she wouldnt let him talk to me just because he liked me too so he listened to her.. after they were over i asked why he wouldnt talk to me and he said well she wouldnt like me if i didnt and im like wut about me liking u? and he didnt say anything ..... he wont go out with me but yet he will do anything sexual with me or go places with me but we can't be boyfriend and girlfriend now hes gotten a gf for the third time that i like him and its just annoying me that he can go out with any1 but me so im not talking to him he seems happy any ways so why interfear with his relationship.....

does any1 have any advice or comments on this?

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 12:36am
Welcome to the board!! I'm sorry to hear what's going on....I know that must be painful to see him going out with other girls. I know it's hard but it sounds like he has trouble seeing you as a gf and will use for sex as long as you let him. I think the best thing you can do is to distance yourself from him....don't let him hurt you like this anymore....you deserve soooo much better!! I know it will be hard to do at first, but I think it would be much harder to continue to see him with these other girls. Good luck and keep us posted and remember we're always here if you need someone to talk to. (((Hugs)))
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 12:45am
Rashell,

Please stay away from this man. He's just using you. He's gone through three girlfriends already. If he loved you and wanted to be with you surely he would have asked you to become his girlfriend already?

I don't know anything about your situation and I don't mean to sound harsh, but this guy sounds like a total loser and user.

If I were you I wouldn't speak to him ever again.

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Registered: 10-09-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 9:29pm
yea im trying to stop talking to him not because i dont like him or nothing but ill let him be happy with whatever choice hes made in his love life and ill just leave it
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Wed, 10-13-2004 - 2:16pm
Sounds like he is using you. You deserve much better. If he was really into you he would date you.