Yes, I've been through this before, but

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Registered: 04-03-2006
Yes, I've been through this before, but
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Mon, 04-03-2006 - 1:58pm
I would like to know of some good reading. I don't want the "He's Just Not That Into You" - have it, read it. I need something to get me by during the times of wanting to call him to ask him just one more time why he's doing this, or when I'm crying so hard that all I want to do is vomit (sorry but no easy way to describe it). Any suggestions?

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Registered: 04-03-2006
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 12:45pm

Thank you Memphis! I'm going to the bookstore today. I'll check that book out. However, I'm not sure he is incapable of loving...it may be that he's just not willing to love ME. Although, he has never been in a serious relationship and at the age of 31, I find that odd. However, my girlfriend doesn't. She says that is still a young age for men nowadays. Dunno?

I agree 100% about the children not being accepted. I agree that it would have been a source of heartache that never would have went away. I know that if I did go back with him, it would always be at the back of my mind about whether or not he really cared for my children and/or would treat them fairly. Not even a question as to what's more important to me - him or them. No contest!

Thank you again for your support!

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Registered: 09-05-2003
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:13pm
One of the few things that gives me comfort about the very abrupt end to my 3-month relationship is that it didn't last any longer than it did. I try to think about how much worse I'd feel if it ended after 6 months or a year. Now we have the chance to use that time to find someone more appropriate and committed to us!

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