You are NOT going to believe this
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| Thu, 03-22-2007 - 10:15am |
About 3 years ago I was on this board bewailing the end of a relationship that had crashed and burned within 6 months. It was all very painful and humiliating and sent me back into therapy to figure out why the hell I keep doing this to myself. 9 months after that "HE" called. We talked, we had dinner, we spent one night together (I know! You don't have to say anything.) and then he called me from Texas (I lived in Minnesota then) to tell me he'd met someone and we couldn't see each other again. I wasn't that bothered the 2nd time around because I was already wondering how to tell him the same thing so my response was, "Okay. Good luck. Goodbye." and hung up the phone. He called again. I didn't pick up. That was the last time I heard from him until this morning when I checked my email and there he was! "Hi, I see you moved to Colorado. I used to live there too. How are you? Write me back if you feel like it."
And the insane thing is . . . I DO feel like it. Damn, damn, damn!

Welcome back ciecherella,
I can't find your old post, oh well.
Yikes on the wanting to contact him. Would it be good for you?
It's probably under an old username.
I don't know if it would be good or not. On the one hand, I am dying to know WHY he would get in touch after all this time and what he wants. Plus just how he tracked me down in Colorado! On the other hand, this guy isn't exactly a shining example of honesty. He wait till 4 DAYS before our vacation to New Zealand that he'd been thinking of cancelling the past 3 months! Also, he broke up with me over the phone. Twice! Altho I hardly count the second time. How do I possibly have ANY kind of relationship with him now.
But . . . what is going on there? Last time we spoke he was just starting a new relationship so did that also crash and burn? Is he divorced - again? He says he "saw me online" so was he deliberately looking and where? Argh! I'm always so indecisive.