Your stuff at an ex's
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Your stuff at an ex's
| Tue, 01-04-2005 - 2:26pm |
So you broke up, and say it has been a few months of no contact, but you have some stuff at your ex's place...would you contact him to try to claim them back, or would you just say "goodbye" to them...not big items...just like shoes or clothes, or what not.
And vice versa...you have something of his, but he has made no attempt to contact you, or get them back from you when you once asked him to get them. Would you just toss them out, or contact him again to check if he wants them?

I would definitely let the stuff at his place go, and I would put his stuff away in the back of a closet for the time being. If he ever calls you to ask for it, send it to him, but otherwise, forget about it. When you get around to cleaning out your closet it a year or two and it's still there, then you can throw it away without guilt ;-).
Sheri
Donate his stuff and take the tax credit. If he calls, you can alway tell him where to pick it up....real cheap.
Mimiche