Welcome Package - A TLC first aid kit for Newbie ENDERS

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Welcome Package - A TLC first aid kit for Newbie ENDERS
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Fri, 11-12-2010 - 8:49pm

Before I get too far past the initial feelings of Ending...I want to gather a number of helpful (One Stop Shop) articles and (previous posts) If you all dont mind if I copy and paste - I promise to include the links and give credit to the author- :) I just want to Organize a

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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The Secret How To Get Over A Break Up by Eddie Corbano

i hate my ex girlfriendHealing a broken heart from a lost love seems to be the most challenging venture one could imagine. A break up usually starts with a phase of paralyzing shock then turns into helplessness and deep grief. It appears impossible to ever be happy again. Wouldn’t it be good if there was a secret how to get over a break up?

What if I told you that a break up or divorce is also a very good chance? Your opportunity? Look into the abyss and see who you really are! Do you believe in this?

Well, I for one, I believe. Because it happened to me and I experienced it myself.

"You don’t know what love is
Until you’ve learned the meaning of the blues
Until you’ve loved a love you’ve had to lose
You don’t know what love is"

–Chet Baker

My own break up in 1998 was on the one hand the most terrible and painful incident that ever happened to me, again on the other hand, the very best that happened to me. Sounds pretty paradoxical, huh?

For now, I would like to ask you just to take my word for it and read on, you will understand.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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The Magic Formula For Overcoming A Break-Up Fast by Eddie Corbano
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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No-Contact Help: How To Fight The Urge To Contact Your Ex by Eddie Corbano

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Click on a figure to learn about the Six-Step Cycle of Change

Cycle of Change

Cycle of Change Model adapted from
"Beyond the Wall of Resistance" by Rick Maurer

The Six Steps of

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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100 Ways to Nurture Yourself

http://demandingjoy.com/?p=1024

Probably the most important component to demanding your joy is learning to take excellent care of yourself – mind, body, and spirit.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Jesus God Almighty...I had a lot of energy! Where is it NOW?!? :) I actually like going back through and reading this - it reminds me how far I've come, how clueless I was in the beginning but how quickly the FOG can take over. Lord! What a mess!
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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There's some wonderful stuff here Michelle - thank you so much for all your efforts in putting this together. We love your energy, and love seeing how far you have come too. Inspiration for any newbie :)

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Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha