18 mos NC and it is the weekend!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
18 mos NC and it is the weekend!
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Sun, 10-24-2010 - 11:34am

Well I must say I am already doing better after reading here all week!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 10-24-2010 - 12:52pm

Hello there and big huge congrats on 18mo NC!

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'It may be that when we no longer know what to do,
We have come to our real work,
And that when we no longer know which way to go,
We have begun our real journey'
- Wendell Berry

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Sun, 10-24-2010 - 12:58pm
Thank you so much wcfem; this is very helpful! Yes staying "kept locked away in my house" IS! like the A: the shame especially.

That must be why it is not feeling good at all to me. But I have been afraid to let him see me or me him. But, I am giving this JAM too much power! The trouble is also that he intuitively sense when I feel less power and give him more power so in the not going out, in front of him, I am actually giving him power too as he sense I am "afraid".

I look forward to hearing from those women who must deal with seeing their ex AP's on the job. Thanks again. M.