18 mos NC and still need support!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
18 mos NC and still need support!
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Sat, 10-16-2010 - 6:01pm

Hello everyone

I have made it 18 mos NC with my ex AP of ten miserable years, give or take, off and on depending on my degree of complicity (no prizes for that one I am afraid).

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Sat, 10-16-2010 - 7:56pm

Welcome to Endings and congratulations going NC and taking your life back.

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Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2009
Sat, 10-16-2010 - 10:12pm

Hi Melinda and welcome to the EAS board.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Sat, 10-16-2010 - 10:29pm

Thanks CL-Iddy!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Sat, 10-16-2010 - 10:44pm

Thank you so much nolove4me

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2009
Sat, 10-16-2010 - 10:58pm

Hi Melinda,

Yeah, Ill be working on a new name soon.:smileyhappy:

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Sat, 10-16-2010 - 11:30pm

nolove4me:

you mean its not all his fault????????

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2009
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 12:17am

lololol I like the new name.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 11:04am

Melinda,

Welcome to EAS.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 12:09pm

Melinda~

I was so happy to see some very insightful posts to your thread. ((Dee)), you keep amazing me with your reborn-ness." :smileyhappy:

M, you asked if it takes longer to get over an XAP if you are in a situation where you still have to see him/her. I will have to give you a resounding "Yes" because I lived with this weight upon my shoulders for almost 2 years until I was able to shed that uselss,

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 10-16-2010
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 2:09pm

Dee Dee I can not thank you enough for your thoughtful response to me post!

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