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| Sat, 02-20-2010 - 6:50pm |
I can not take credit for this but I have chanted it or read it at least once a week as of late, but as a young newbie, it got me thru my darkest hours....
If you can put it on your bathroom mirror at home, do so. If you can make it your screen saver on a computer or phone...chant it, memorize it. Its simple. It works. If someone knows who the author is, let me know..I need to email her a big thank you!! For now, it is my duty and pleasure to pay it forward to you all....
there has been a lot of sadness on this board as of late, trying to inject some positivity into you all. It helps me as well. Here it goes....
"To those who are struggling with NC and ending the A: you can do it. You are worth it. You deserve someone who will put you first. Love you and only you. Someone who would move heaven and earth before they would be willing to see in you in this kind of pain.
By breaking NC you say you are not worth those things. Stop focusing on XAP and focus on you. Ever time you choose to not contact XAP you choose to say I AM WORTH MORE THAN THAT AND I DESERVE BETTER. Remember you are important."
Luvin

Thank you so much for re-posting this, Luv.
Hugs,
Misty
Agreed! I needed this today.
Thank you :) ((hugs!))
'It may be that when we no longer know what to do,
We have come to our real work,
And that when we no longer know which way to go,
We have begun our real journey'
- Wendell Berry
Hey, luv~
I know you were delivered a curve ball this past week by the devil :o) breaking nc...if you are posting something positive now in an effort to help newbies, it would seem you are in a VERY healthy place....LOVE that!
Knowing what it's like for those new to this mess, don't you just want to