20 days no contact & he knocks on my door
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20 days no contact & he knocks on my door
| Thu, 02-03-2011 - 11:59pm |
I started no contact 20 days ago and tonight he ruins it by knocking on my door.
First let me start by saying i have not posted on here as much as i should i have been suffering in silence i guess....I started out so strong with the no contact and was fine until day 12. Then i just broke down and cried and cried. I still dont know what the trigger was i guess being lonely. I had put the kids to bed and H works 2nd shift so i was home alone i

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Foggy
I want to thank you for replying last night. I was a mess &
Angel, I'm too new here to be able to offer any words of wisdom, but I just wanted to say that I'm so proud of you for responding the way that you did and I hope tomorrow will be a better day for you.
You are doing the right thing for yourself and for your children and you will get through this. One hour at a time, one day at a time "this too will pass". Stay safe, stay strong, and be kind to yourself. We're all right here with you.
Hugs and smiles.
Kat.
E1
It was around 10:30 pm when he knocked on my door. He is single & yes i had D-day in sept 09...he told my husband everything when i tried to end it with him hoping that would end my marriage. It almost did H moved out & at things were not
Iddy
Thank you for your reply....You are a very strong person and i hope one day i can get to be that strong. You also give wonderful advice and help people to see through the fog to the truth.
You are 100% right about him. He cornered me he made it all about him and his pain, trying to make me the bad person. The longer i been sitting here and thinking im remembering more of the truth about him...not the good times anymore...im remembering the bad stuff...He is a lowlife in the worst sense of the word. Kid Rock has a song called Lowlife and it fits him almost perfectly not that i think about it....
Your right about another D-day too if he tells he tells i cant stop him.....this affair is done and im not going to let him blackmail me into continueing it....I made it through one D-day and if i have to i can make it through another.....if i have to i have to there is
MG
Thank you for the support i need all i can get right now....
Addictedangel, I have had similar incidences happen to me. This response from foggy is great and warm. He didn't ruin your days of NC. You still went thru the worst of it. Those first three weeks were the hardest. And you saw it thru. You handled yourself as best you could. But you have nothing to feel guilty about. You may have done some ugly things in the past, but you are not anymore and that is ALL you can control. Hope today is better. Please protect yourself in the future...
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
I think I remember your story - after you
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