3 days in to tweenerville my Dday hits

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3 days in to tweenerville my Dday hits
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Mon, 10-11-2010 - 1:14pm
So xAPs W deciced out of the blue to contact my H tonight and told him everything..needless to say he is gutted the children are inconsolable ..i am the devil incarnate and he has kicked me out how do i make him listen ...how do i make him see we had already chosen spouse and family over xAPhe is talking divorce..i had started the hard yards...we had re. ..connected...things were good .. . ir eache? d93 days now this....cr@p H wont even talk to me..hates me wants a D...says he will find a lawyer tomorrow what do i do? He knows i love him..that i want my family i guess balls in Hs court now
NC x

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Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:05am

I 100% agree with Chechi.

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Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:06am
OMG !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok....i woke (!! well got) up early.....he got up gave me a serve about D and i should stop fighting it, it was going to happen ..i told him it was my house too, i wasnt budging till we sorted things out so he said right i am off to my mums. haha ......felt sick as a dog... went to work, he went to his mum and dads... he went to his head office,,they have been wonderful apparently re long service leave, counselling

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Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:16am

(((NC))))

There are no words to express right now how happy I am for you. Sleep well, my friend.

Love, Bodhi

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Registered: 10-17-2007
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:23am
That's awesome... See he came around. And yes history does count for a lot!!

Yay!
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Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:26am

Oh wow NC.

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Registered: 11-16-2009
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:47am

NC- I am so happy for you and your H right now.

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 11:06am

Yes, in laws i think played a huge part

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 12:25pm

Oh jeeze! I'm glad I went through the entire thread and that things are starting to turn around! Big hugs! I'm S, never married, and I don't have any

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'It may be that when we no longer know what to do,
We have come to our real work,
And that when we no longer know which way to go,
We have begun our real journey'
- Wendell Berry

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 4:46pm

((NC))

I wouldn't dream of stripping you of your wings. You earned them, my dear, and then some. :smileywink: I am just so happy that your H is coming around. Whoever he talked to is an angel in disguise.

We are here for you whenever you need us, but right now your family needs all of you present and "accounted" for. :smileyhappy:

((Hugs))

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:07pm

NC,

Let me be the 1st to greet you ....