3 days in to tweenerville my Dday hits

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3 days in to tweenerville my Dday hits
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Mon, 10-11-2010 - 1:14pm
So xAPs W deciced out of the blue to contact my H tonight and told him everything..needless to say he is gutted the children are inconsolable ..i am the devil incarnate and he has kicked me out how do i make him listen ...how do i make him see we had already chosen spouse and family over xAPhe is talking divorce..i had started the hard yards...we had re. ..connected...things were good .. . ir eache? d93 days now this....cr@p H wont even talk to me..hates me wants a D...says he will find a lawyer tomorrow what do i do? He knows i love him..that i want my family i guess balls in Hs court now
NC x

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 10:17pm

NC,

Tears of joy for you!

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Fri, 10-15-2010 - 12:05pm

Dee you made me smile....would hate you to get too emo on us all...

Thanks Iddy am polishing my wings as we speak.

Had a constructive day with H. Night time seems the worst for him, the waves of excruciating pain and emotional rolllercoaster he is on is hard to watch, and i can only equate it to the early stages of NC pain but i can hardly relate that btdt example to him ;)...his biggest hurdle is to try and get sleep he is exhausted. He mentioned counselling tonight too.

we have agreed

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Fri, 10-15-2010 - 12:21pm
I apprecaite you cheking in. Since reading this post the first of the week I have held you near my heart and thoughts as i couldn't imagime the hurt both of you have been experiencing. I feel like Liberty, one day you will see that this is really a blessing in disguise, you will be free, your marraige will be better and stronger. You will no longer be living your life with "the secret". So happy your and your H are moving forward..((hugs)) and much love N_S
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Sun, 10-17-2010 - 5:41am

Hi NC!!!!

I emailed you. I am back after being away a few days. Oh mate you have been through hell and back! Probably a bit more to come. But I think you are going to get there!!!!! I am so so so so happy for you right now. You have a long path ahead- but its the right path my love!!!

Iggy xx

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