3 wks. NC tomorrow....rough day

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3 wks. NC tomorrow....rough day
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Wed, 01-20-2010 - 1:19pm
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Edited 2/25/2010 10:41 am ET by jilly1983
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 2:31pm

Jillie,


With just 3 weeks NC under your belt, you are going feel all of these negative emotions, from wanting to follow him to wanting to rat him out, and it's okay. Thinking them is a far cry from doing them and it's perfectly normal.


I am happy to hear that you are starting IC next seek. Good for you. It's really going to help you deal with all of these mixed

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 10:54pm

Hi Jilly,


Congrats. on the three weeks and on the upcoming IC appt. Last I read you were checking into it. You go gurl for having an appt. set up already.


You asked:


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I recommend reading the thread below and waiting until you talk to your T before making that decision.


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=27271.1&x=y


I agree will CL’s advice on the social event. If he approaches you, say hello and then excuse yourself. Try to stay engaged in covo. with others at the event to avoid xAP.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Fri, 01-22-2010 - 10:15am
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Edited 2/25/2010 10:41 am ET by jilly1983
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Registered: 11-11-2008
Sun, 01-24-2010 - 10:03am

Jilly,


I have not read everyone else's replies, so I apologize if repeating someone....

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Sun, 01-24-2010 - 7:46pm
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Edited 2/25/2010 10:39 am ET by jilly1983