3rd time is the charm???

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Registered: 02-09-2010
3rd time is the charm???
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Wed, 02-10-2010 - 6:01pm

Long story short - I am a MW involved 2 1/2 years in a PA with MM, AP has 'ended' things for the 3rd time.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 6:30pm

Love the name.
Welcome to the board. And congratulations! I hope the first day of your new life is filled with healthy purpose and blessings befitting your new beginning.

I wish you strength and peace.
Dee

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Registered: 10-04-2009
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 6:38pm

Welcome to EAS and congratulations on starting day 1 of your new life.


Many of us here on the board have been through similar repeated endings - I, for one, went through several endings over an 8 year A, until finally, he ended it and

NC since October 2, 2009.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 9:31pm

JPMTH,


Welcome, welcome. Is the 3rd time the charm? Worked for me. ;-) Or as I like to say, 3 strikes and your OUT! I remember

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 11:37pm

Hi JPMTH,


Welcome to EAS.


Although he initiated the ending you can take back some of your power in the decision making by making sure he sticks to it. Block his email and phone number. This sends a message indirectly if he tries to contact you. His emails will be returned as undeliverable and his calls will not go through. Nothing says I’m done like blocking all avenues of communication.


Hope you stay and read more posts here...especially about NC and how to stick to it.


Big hugs,


E1


Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2010
Thu, 02-11-2010 - 1:16am

Thanks for all your support today -

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2010
Thu, 02-11-2010 - 1:43pm

So he already

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2009
Thu, 02-11-2010 - 1:53pm

It's good you missed the call.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 02-11-2010 - 1:56pm

JPMTH,


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   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2010
Tue, 02-16-2010 - 12:17pm

Today begins day 7 of NC - it has been a roller coaster of a week but I have a bit of clarity and a few thoughts to share...


I can't say I've stopped checking 'our' e-mail account but I've gone from checking it 1500 times a day, I check it once in the morning and once at night


I didn't block his number but I let my throw away phone run out of minutes and turn off


I haven't stopped thinking about xap but I haven't shed any tears in the last few days


The weekend was tough and I was actually dreading H retuning home from his trip.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Tue, 02-16-2010 - 12:35pm

Whoo-hoo!
This is amazing and wonderful news about your H! I am soooo jealous!
;)

Now, about checking that secret email..... Baby, you know that every time you check it you send yourself into a place that you feel awful in, right? If he emails you, omg, what do you do?!! and if he _doesn't_ email you, omg, why?why?why? - and so on and so forth. Can you please do me a personal favor and delete that account? I'd love to see where you can take this whole new-hubby-sexed-up-on-a-blanket thing SANS your repeated trips to hell with the email checking. Howz 'bout you email H every time you feel like checking that account? Oh! oh! and think about how fun it would be to get all dolled up and take a bunch of photos for H to send him without his asking? mmmmm. I am excellent on photoshop, iffn you want me to make you look even more like the cover of Maxim!! (I think I'm getting a good idea for a side business here!) ha.

With that, I'm off!
Love,
Dee

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