54 minutes NC

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2009
54 minutes NC
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Mon, 11-09-2009 - 4:35pm
I am so pathetic. Why does this hurt so badly?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
In reply to: qiqat
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 5:01pm

It hurts b/c you have feelings....you're human....and you're giving up something you probably don't want to give up.


That's my guess...we seem to be in the same boat right now and I thought I'd respond and let you know you're not alone.


NC is for my own good (and yours too).

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: qiqat
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 5:52pm

54 minutes that you were in control. 54 minutes that you stuck to your decision. 54 minutes that will lead to the beginning of taking back your life.


It's hard. It hurts...but the end result is worth it all.


Welcome to EAS! Hope you had at least 54 minutes to read here especially in the Healing Library which is a little more than half way down on the main EAS page.


Much love and big hugs,


E1


Whether you think you can or you think you cant you are probably right.


A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.


Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: qiqat
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 6:34pm

Hi qiqat :)


You're not pathetic.


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2009
In reply to: qiqat
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 11:14pm
Thank you everyone. Over 7 hours now. It's tough. DH keeps asking what's wrong. I can't hide it. I shrugged it off. I don't know how NC works, but he's my neighbor. Family friends. UGH!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2009
In reply to: qiqat
Tue, 11-10-2009 - 8:01am

Please send me an email!!! We are in such a similar situation!

hugs

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2009
In reply to: qiqat
Tue, 11-10-2009 - 12:52pm
Oh God. He emailed me hello. I responded. He wants to be friends. WTF. I have to start over again now. How many times until NC works????