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|Tue, 09-11-2012 - 1:02pm|
Just like 9/11, there are miniature 9/11 in our own personal lives, moments that will forever change our lives. Moments that will turn our whole worlds upside down, and life will never be the same afterward. One of my personal 9/11 was July 13th, 2012. That is the day I told my husband about the affair and that the baby is not biologically his. Just like 9/11/2001, life will never be the same. But just like 9/11/01 I believe it will be something we will always remember, but we will survive, we live through it, we pick ourselves up, we dust ourselves off, and we move on, and in the end we will come out even stronger for having lived through this. Thanks in part to everyone on this board that has given me advise and encouragement. Rather be me was the first to make the 9/11 analogy to me:
It’s time to make some decisions; it’s the 9/11 of your life. If your fantasy is worth living then go for it. If reality is worth living then go for it. Just like the towers coming down, everyone’s life is jeopardy and you need to make some decisions as to what and who you are going to save.
Thanks for all your insight Rather. And I hope me posting will make someone else think about it and start making some very tough decisions.
Hurt now healing (formally hurting need help)