Absolutely mixed up!
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Absolutely mixed up!
| Sat, 01-08-2005 - 2:05pm |
Hi I'm new here never posted on anything before, so here goes, have'nt got anyone else to talk to about my siuation. So the basics are: been married 30 years 3 kids 2 grandchildren, my husband is kind, considerate and like a brother really, sex is now and again, but without the fireworks. Anyway made contact on the internet with my ex, and we e mailed for a couple of years eventually spoke on the phone and then we met this year and we are just crazy about each other all over again, he is married 29yrs we live 200 miles away from each other, and it seriously driving me to distraction, we have not slept together, but to be honest it's only because we have not had the opportunity. What I want to know is should I end it, I know my life would be a lot easier if I did, I would hate to, because I am just so comfortable with him,and would jump into bed with him at the drop of a hat, it's just like we never left each other, I'm 50 this year and I think I am going through a mid life crisis too, I am just so fed up, particularly with my marriage, I have tried lots of things to spice it up with my h but to no avail. Yet my ex is aching to be with me and I him, but I have that horrible gut feeling that I have got to get real, I have tried to end it with him (ex), but he won't let go and I don't want to.
I could go on forever, sorry!
I could go on forever, sorry!

Alice
Sky
Are you really prepared to destroy your 30 year marriage and you family for some fireworks.
Another though for you if you do 1)don't expect him to leave his wife for you he won't , he will blame it all on you and beg her to give the marriage another chance, 2)if you were so unlucky as to end up with this cheating married man and it lasted 5 years and the novalty and newness has warn off that your still going to have these fireworks.
It seems to be a very shallow relationship based on using each other to satisfy LUST and nothing else, is it really worth the price eveyone else will have to pay for your fling.
Skydived,
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