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Advice please
| Tue, 07-20-2004 - 2:59pm |
Hi everyone. I am usually on the My Affair Support board, but have decided it is time for me to transition to this board. It's time, my heart knows it. I care deeply for MM and would love to have a future with him but I know he doesn't feel the same way and I need to stop torturing myself.
I work with MM and have lunch with him daily. We are good friends on top of lovers. I can be his friend, I just want to stop wanting him. I'm sure he'll be okay with the end of the A because I am easily replaceable. So how do I keep strong and end this A and stay out of it and protect my heart at the same time? Any advice out there?
Thanks,
ibc
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| Tue, 07-20-2004 - 7:46pm |
Well you've taken the first step which is good. The next step is much harder! Start distancing yourself from him. If you continue to see him on a regular basis, it will feel as if nothing has changed, and he definitely won't notice anything has changed. Take gradual steps of departure, and eventually your heart will start longing for something other than MM.
