The affair is over can't stop laughing!
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| Tue, 12-29-2009 - 11:56pm |
Background story...I have been having an affair with a MM for almost 3 years. It was an on again/off again thing, my friend thought it was perhaps he was feeling guilt etc. Anyways, it pretty much ended in the summer of this year, I had eventually accepted it and was moving on very slowly. A couple of months ago, I heard threw the grapevine he had left his wife (which he swore would never happen because of the kids and I never pressured). I heard from at the beginning of the month and he told me via email he was getting a divorce but wouldn't tell me why. Stupid me allowed myself to start hoping. About a week ago, the emails started again and very quickly got hot and heavy. After about 2 days and many, many emails....he tells me he has met a wonderful woman, they are living together and he loves her very much. This supposedly happened in a matter of a couple of months...ya right!
I was devastated and very angry at the same time. Angry that he had played me for a fool with those emails. I asked him flat out what was the point of the past couple of weeks. He informs me "he didn't think it was that big of a deal." Yes, I enjoy being played like that. I walked away from the computer to calm down before I said some things I would later regret. About 4 hours later, I logged on to the computer and low and behold there is an email from him.
Apparently the genius emailed one of the very explicit email threads to his entire department at work. He had inadvertently saved it and when he attached what he thought was the proper work document...he discovered very quickly it wasn't! I don't work with them, they don't know me...but new girlfriend does and got the email! He was emailing me to tell me and begging me that if she contacts me to lie and say this happened 20 years ago! That if we want to continue the affair then I had better cover for him or she won't let him talk to me!!!!!! I can guarantee the affair WILL NOT be continuing! I should feel something but right now I just can't stop laughing!

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He got what he deserves and please please do NOT lie to the poor woman. Tell her the truth, be upfront and let the rest fall on its own.
NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No N
OMG! that was just too funny. I cant believe that douchebag screwed up like that. He should have been too embarrassed to even ask u to cover for him.
Thanks for sharing. If I were u I'd probably be laughing into next week. lol
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Good Morning Goddess~
Too funny!!
Don't be surprised that any fallout he receives from his job and his new girlfriend will be blamed on you.
Yes, energy is right, he probably will put blame on you and not take any responsibility for his actions. The fact that he e-mailed you that he is probably going to lose his job shows that he is trying to keep you a part of it. Block his e-mails and not respond to anything from this man. It would drive him CRAZY! lol
I love this post, keep us informed.
"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."
NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No N
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