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after 3 years, but can it work.
| Fri, 10-30-2009 - 9:53am |
i posted this on mas, honest opinions here to please. thank you. my X-AP would like to give us a chance to be together in the next 2 months before he moves away, about 14 hours. i think i know what pushed his decision was my packing up and moving and telling him i can't be a secret. i know that my husband and i are done, it's not going to work. this is what i laways wanted. can it work, honest opinions please. thank you.
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"my X-AP would like to give us a chance to be together in the next 2 months"
Moonunit -
You're probably not going to like my answer, but here it goes.
Has he moved out of his house?
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
Hi Moon,
I only have a few minutes on today and was going to respond to the thread I started but then I saw your post and I feel like I need to take the few mins. I have on today to respond to your thread.
We want what is best for you. I am very concerned that at least part of
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Hi,
I'm also going to chime in and say be very, very careful.
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
Are you still legally married?
What you need to work on is leaving your abusive H. Whether there is a future with AP or however you call him, you need to get your own place, by self-sufficient and financially stable, and then deal with whatever comes along. It is nice and fun to make plans with a partner, but you still need to become a "stand alone unit", especially there is a possibility that you may have to raise your baby by yourself.
I agree with one PP - talk to your therapist.
Just a few thoughts that hit me when reading your post.
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Edited 11/9/2009 7:56 am ET by lenore2009
lenore, thank you for your post. my X-AP has made it clear that he does not want this baby, wether out of fear or what have you. i can't believe that he would take such drastic measures of having me move in to his home so he can see me, it seems to off the wall. who knows what he is thinking other then he's stressed and this is all that is on his mind.
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
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