All the lies

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2003
All the lies
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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 4:12pm
I am just over whelmed thinking of all the lies he has told me, why was I so stupid to believe them, now since I am trying to end all contact I just can not believe all the lies I fell for. He must think I am stupid, but that is ok, because I KNOW NOW. And I will never fall for it again, I am feeling NUMB to all. Yeah he may have played me, but I have the rest of my life to have a happy healthy relationship, he will always be with his miserable marriage and be cheating on the side, I have accepted he will never see what he lost, but I am going to see what I gained and I will be happy again. His wife can have him! His lies, his games, his control, his jealousy, his job, all his other women. All he was to me was a fantasy, he never existed time to wake up and smell the roses~
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2004
In reply to: fooled2much
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 11:04pm
I feel your pain....been there done that before. I am not sure why we believe all the lies and the crap they tell us. Maybe deep down we know they are lies but are so caught up in the A to realize it is not real and that what they tell us is usually B.S. The whole A is based on a lie and therefore I think MM realize this and have no regard for our emotions. I know it is hard as I have been struggling and hurt myself recently but like you the fantasy is over and the lies have stopped cuz I choose not to talk to him anymore or call him ever again. I am now at a point if he calls me I probably won't answer and if I do by mistake I can tell him to go to He@@!! That would be the best thing for me and would give me the closure I need!! I am pretty much over him but still a little hurt because I believed in him and us and he let me down. It is hard to stop thinking about them but it can be done.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2004
In reply to: fooled2much
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 11:52pm

yeap, its all lies, for my experience OW told me that she was sorry to "lead me on", well it think what she meant was she lied to me

im a fool to believe her and i convinced myself that it would work, its all a fantasy we build in our head and our hearts believed it also

i hope we all learn from our experiences

eat some ice cream !!!

take care,

max

- there is too much drama in my life now that i felt like i can write a script and send it to hollywood or be yet, im gonna make a new reality show based on "affairs"