To all of you...

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2004
To all of you...
3
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 11:08am
I returned to this board for the support I needed and found it in groves! :) It IS good to have somewhere to go - where there are people who know what you are going through. And yet... I've been so distraught over the number of posts that are just dripping with pain and anguish over these Affairs we allowed ourselves to get caught up in! :( I hurt for all of you (and for me) so much! There IS a reason why Affairs are considered taboo and unhealthy spiritually! If you don't believe it - take 5 minutes and just SKIM thread titles - click on a few and read the pain so many of us walk away with!

And yet... 3 messages I've been fortunate to run across are posted below because they are encouraging that life CAN exist and be wonderful after this brief torture we decided to put ourselves through! Have HOPE friends... we have strong spirits inside us... reach in there and pull from that strength and as each day comes and goes that pain is gonna subside and you'll realize all that pain and confusion doesn't define you... you are wonderful, beautiful and amazing and deserve a life controlled by YOU!!!!

God's best to EACH of you!!!!!

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=13802.1

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=14041.1&ctx=128

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=14110.1&ctx=0

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2004
In reply to: ldesma
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 10:29am
even though it appears no one is finding this helpful - I'm bumping it! :p
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
In reply to: ldesma
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 11:13am
<<>>

Those were definately 3 very amazing posts, as are many more on this board. That is why we suggest for all newcomers/and old timers too, to read the archives, the articles, and post as much as is needed to start sweating out those toxins in our system. We didn't get hooked overnight....and getting unhooked will be a test of strength and courage.

<<>>

Of course they are/will. Weekends can be slow sometimes.


~True~

 

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-28-2004
In reply to: ldesma
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 11:21am
Idesma,

I found it to be VERY helpful! :) I read each one, even the one I wrote again! Just wanted to say thanks!

:)

Love,

Lily
Love, Lily PG with #1 EDD 11/23 baby