To all of you who continue to struggle!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
To all of you who continue to struggle!!
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Tue, 05-13-2003 - 1:34am
I just wanted to tell you it does hurt! Does it get better? YES! I personally will always have a place for my XOM in my heart. NEVER AGAIN will HE enter my life! Hard fought battle! And also a hard won battle! Will I hate him? NO! I hate the way he used me and treated me though! Hate the man NEVER! I will love him way beyond death.

I have set him free though in my heart and soul. That came with much help from many men and women here, past and present! I really don't know where I would be without each and everyone of you today! Everyone of you has given me a very important piece to this puzzle!!! Yes, every single one of you!

Thank You! Working together as a team ALWAYS MAKES A DIFFERENCE! Who else is ready? I sure hope we can all walk forward together no one in front and no one behind! Just all in one wide line! Ready? Let's GO!
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 11:18am
I'm in! Since I spoke to ex aMM last week & realized that he cannot hurt me anymore if I don't allow him to. I have spent the last 3 months wondering why, what if, etc. It really doesn't matter anymore. Whenever thoughts of him pop into my head now, I push them away. NO MORE! I'm done with him and moving on with my life for good this time :)
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Registered: 04-29-2003
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 12:12pm
Green lights all around here, SB =) Let's not forget our thickest-soled, most comfy walkin' shoes, cuz we're in for a marathon. We'll keep our eyes on the prize of being made whole again, or maybe for the first time ever... surely that's a finish line worth striving for! OH ya, mental note here... walking towards that place of growth and healing is a little bit easier if I keep looking forward, not behind me... sometimes that's SO hard to remember. Well, I don't know about everyone else, but I can't think of a group I'd like to move forward with more, you're all such a major blessing! ((((HUGS))) ~Mel ;)
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Tue, 05-13-2003 - 2:46pm
I'm game!!! You wanna ride piggy back or should I? :) Whoo hoo, I'm on a roll this afternoon!

Enjoy your day!

GT

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Registered: 05-13-2003
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 3:12pm
Piggy back ride??? Better luck next time! I'm too old for that unless I get to ride you! You are on a roll! What did you have for lunch anyways????
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Registered: 05-13-2003
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 3:15pm
That was a sweet reply! Just imagine yourself as a horse pulling a cart with blinders on! That's why they wear them! So there are no distractions! You get to be the pretty prancing horse of many colors! Okay with you?
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Registered: 05-13-2003
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 3:18pm
Good for you! That's exactly what it takes! You're well on your way girl! Fly like the wind!
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Tue, 05-13-2003 - 4:45pm
SB I love that (!) , I get to be the pretty horsie? Why Not - WHAT THE HAY?! Im saddled up, ready to go, and my fav part will be leaving horse patties (AKA parade biscuits, road pebbles) for my XOM to step in along the way as he walks behind me. (NAYYYY, NAYYYYY, HORSIE LIKE!!!) Im galloping with this one, SB -A wave of silliness just swept me in...LOLOLOLOL
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Tue, 05-13-2003 - 6:37pm
Too old???? No way!!! As for my lunch, my lovely daughter was here on her lunch break and we discussed all the fun planning we still have to do. We also talked about all the fun we intend to have this Summer! Tanning, swimming, the outdoor concerts - we are excited because it was an absolutely beautiful day here!

Hope yours was beautiful too!

GT

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Registered: 05-13-2003
Mon, 05-19-2003 - 4:23pm
Hi EVERYONE! I posted a reply to my own message here to bring it back to the top because I sure would like to more people say there are willing to move forward! Who's ready? There has to be more then 8 people!
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Registered: 04-30-2003
Mon, 05-19-2003 - 4:59pm
Count me in sweetblonde. I did not see your post until now. Thanks for bumping it up. "Let's ride to the enchanted forest" like my niece's unicorn would chime if you pressed its ears. ;-)