That is what I laid out and left him the opportunity to weigh in on.,one more time.
Weigh-in on what exactly?
Leaving any opening is hanging on.
Hanging on is not ending it.
We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.
How did that work for your life, your marriage, and for your family?
Think about it.
Your response reminds me of a friends response to a girl he met in the bar when asked if he was married.
"I'm in the process of getting separated".
Later I quizzed him, because as far as I knew he was quite married.
His response, "If my wife catches me with her, I will be getting separated".
You are in the process of ending.
I'm sorry you feel that way.