Almost at the toll booth

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Almost at the toll booth
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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 6:33pm

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Registered: 07-14-2011
Fri, 04-20-2012 - 11:46pm

That is what I laid out and left him the opportunity to weigh in on.,one more time.

Weigh-in on what exactly?

Formerly heartacheafter7years
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Registered: 04-23-2010
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 8:38am

Leaving any opening is hanging on.

Hanging on is not ending it.

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 9:46am
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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 9:56am
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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 10:46am

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How did that work for your life, your marriage, and for your family?

Think about it.

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Registered: 03-08-2011
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 1:25pm
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Sat, 04-21-2012 - 1:53pm
Ugh...u are dragging this out as if you want to end it your way and get your last two cents in. Which is pretty worthless at this point. After 12 years of an A, there anything you have said in that lettER that has not already been said between the two of you? Come on now, really?
A simple so long n let me be will suffice, when u say too much, then he will respond and then u will n the on it goes...

Stop the cycle! How much more of your life ate u going to give to this?

One email. Two words... "It's over". Ok maybe 5 words. Add "don't contact me"

How well or not well can u end a affair?
N logically speaking, is even being in one logical?
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 2:31pm

Your response reminds me of a friends response to a girl he met in the bar when asked if he was married.

"I'm in the process of getting separated".

Later I quizzed him, because as far as I knew he was quite married.

His response, "If my wife catches me with her, I will be getting separated".

You are in the process of ending.

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Registered: 07-24-2005
Sun, 04-22-2012 - 8:28am

I'm sorry you feel that way.


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Registered: 06-08-2010
Sun, 04-22-2012 - 8:35am
Daisy,
I'm sorry to see you deleted all your posts. I wish you strength on your journey and please know that those who responded to you were not responding out of judgement...we have all BTDT. The responses that seem harsh or critical may appear to be because there is that battle going on within. You hear the words, you know what needs to be done, but you are conflicted because you aren't ready for that part of your journey. But it will happen. The end will come. And when it does, please remember we are here for you. We will welcome you with open arms, sweetie. You CAN get your life back. It will be up to YOU to do the work. We are your support.

Hearts <3

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