altering my life because of an affair
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altering my life because of an affair
| Thu, 04-29-2010 - 8:04am |
I hate this.....I am trying to find another job and having to change my life around because XMM can still contact me here at my job, (he is a customer).

Beach,
Im on here early today and have a minute to post, the rest of the group will be here soon to offer their thoughts. Take their thoughts and take on things and run with then because there are some very strong and intellegent women here. Iddy, Jane, myself and
Hi Beach-
I am sorry.
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Hi Jane, Thank you for your kind words. I am mostly a lurker and my story is actually no different than anyones elses. ....... I am at a point in my life that if he were to ever become face to face with me, I would walk away.
hi beach,
I'm an oldtimer here. I mostly read and don't post very often lately. But I want to tell you - do not let your "fear" of xAP
be the cause for you to leave your job. I like what the others are saying to you. In time you will gain strength and get your power back. He can't control you - only you can do that. Make decisions based on you and not him. And who knows, he could always leave his job and not be calling on your company any longer. Use the "I'm free of him" attitude to stand up and be strong. You go girl!