Another POV, Revenge Affairs
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Another POV, Revenge Affairs
| Sat, 05-14-2011 - 6:46pm |
It was a discussion between my therapist and me some time ago. I started out thinking that maybe that was why I had an affair in the first place.
I can only blame myself for staying with a serial cheater for all these years, but I can also see the sickness and the psychological problems that she has. There are many reasons

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We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.
Kat
"When you can no longer depend on your spouse for the things that you are entitled to in a marriage then realistically, it is over."
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If it were not different, then why do we hurt so, and for so long?
Or are you just saying.........sometimes?
I still would never intentionally hurt someone who I loved.
We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.
When I went thru the fire my veins flt like molten lave my heat raced and in one night i broke it like a drunk becoming sober it never came back.
I would just like to remind posters that this isn't a debate board. While I agree that no one can/ought to say how another person may feel, what is 'real' to one is not 'real' to another etc ... the purpose of this board is to advocate strict NC, block & walk & taking accountability for the destruction that affairs cause in the lives of those deceived & manipulated along the way ... not to debate about whether or not one benefits from ascribing to the social constructions of relationship, or whether they should be challenged.
That's talk for another board.
Thank you,
TU.
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