Any of you pen a final letter to xmm

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Registered: 12-31-1969
Any of you pen a final letter to xmm
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Sun, 10-10-2004 - 5:52pm
Just curious as to what you put in your final,ending letter/emails,(if any of you used them as a final closure)
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Registered: 09-21-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 7:46pm
My advice is to avoid doing anything in writing. It not only creates a permanent record of what you say, chances are it will go too far in (a) looking for closure, (b) looking for validation of your or his (or both) "feelings" and/or (c) other things you may regret saying later. Hopefully it would not somehow leave a small door open for future contact (like telling him what you have felt for him...).

Your answer may depend on your specific situation (my apologies for not knowing it if you have posted it before). But my call is to say it over the phone and then be done.

Good luck and congratulations on making the decision to leave :-)

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Sun, 10-10-2004 - 8:06pm
Hiya Katie,

My final email's quoted on this thread.

http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/iv-rlending/?msg=14187.2

Wishing you strength & peace,

Posie