Anybody hear this one?

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Registered: 12-11-2009
Anybody hear this one?
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Thu, 03-25-2010 - 9:16am

Even though it has been almost 3 months of NC there is still one line he gave me that continues to haunt me..."Nobody will ever love you the way I do".

He was single and young and I probably could have run away with him, however, RL would have been a shambles with him.

So, did any of you ladies here that one? Maybe if I knew it was truly just a "line" I could just let it go.

Have a wonderful xap-free kinda day!!!

Love, AAI

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 9:49am

I can see why you would be haunted by those words.

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 9:49am

Acting,
OMG, that is _such_ a line. Just google it! It's a desperate and pathetic, manipulative and abusive LINE of total Boolsh*t. Although.... maybe JAM was right! In a twisted way.... No one will ever 'love' you the way he did --- THANK GOD. You're getting healthy now; the love that awaits you in your future will be healthy, rewarding, open and GOOD. Any so-called 'love' he gave you was the opposite and toxic. Who wants that?! Not me. Not you!

(screw him)
xoxoxo
Dee

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 10:19am

Yeah, I heard those words. I think it was Bobby Sherman or Donny Osmond who sang them. Or maybe it was Barry Manilow....

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Thu, 03-25-2010 - 10:23am

That line has been used over and over for years, but I'm sure you know that. I think he is just trying to leave his "mark" on you. It's an ego thing. He wants you to remember him. He wants his love to be bigger than any that came before or will come after. How can you measure love anyway?


I heard "I love my wife, but I love you in a different way" "I'll never let you go again", "You are my soulmate" "I'll always love you" ... and the list goes on.


Oh, I also heard "You can't stop me from loving you".

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 10:31am
Good one, Always!
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Registered: 12-11-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 10:42am
Thanks you guys. You're all so great. Dee you had me LMAO with the "screw him" comment. I could just picture your face as you wrote it. BTW, that reminds me, I'm always trying to picture you all in my head. Sometimes when I'm out and I see a beautiful woman I think to myself, could that be Dee, or Iddy, or KMG6 or whoever. Do any of you do that???
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 11:15am
I do, too! I think it would be great if we set up a reunion date, time and place and whoever could make it could make it. I know we embrace our anonymity here, but we could
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Registered: 02-02-2010
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 11:33am

The line that always got me, that I now know is a bunch of hooey : "With you I am me." What the f*&%^! Gah. Just thinking about how he used to sign his emails that way makes me want to vomit. "With you I am me..." What a load of bull.

And yes, I often think some amazing women in my life could in fact be women from this board. The world has proven small to me in the past... it's not beyond the scope of reality.

Jane
NC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 12-11-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 11:45am
I would love that too Alwayst! You organize, I'm so lousy at that, and I'll be there!!!
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 11:49am

You got it, AGI! I'll start a new thread and get some input from others.

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