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| Fri, 06-18-2004 - 1:49pm |
I am an OLD OLD poster...things do get better! They really do...I do have a question for you all. What if you found out your xMM is having ANOTHER long term affair??? I just found this out and I have to say I am blown out of the water by this. I have had N/C for over 1 and a half years, but I would allow myself the memories (good) ones and thought he MUST be feeling the same and that provided some comfort...come to find out he has been in another AFFAIR..and I feel all my hard work has gone by the boards and I am on day 1 of N/C...has this ever happened? He always said we were "soulmates, the love of each others lives, blah blah blah.." so I thought I could have those warm memeories...why do I feel so so..I don't even know what to say here...
any thoughts? any help??....boy oh boy would I love to tell the "new" one what she is in for...... she has no no clue I am sure....

Men think day to day, he probably did care for you. But think of it this way, you are the one better off. You are the one who has had NC for a year and a half, I can't even imagine a year and a half right now. I know you are hurting now, but it will not take you near as long to get over this and plus now you know that you made the right decision. You are the better person. Stay strong and good luck.
I don't feel so strong... :(
I suggest that you maintain NO CONTACT period as muc as he deserves to be exposed.
If you start this you have no idea were it will end, he could give you husband a call for a little revenge.
I think your so blown away because you held on to a part of the affair fantasy as a way of comforting yourself and now that has been suddenly removed, a bit of a shock but I think in a way a good thing to help you return totaly to the real world.
Be wise
Free
Welcome back.....
If you're really "done" with xMM, WHY