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| Mon, 05-16-2005 - 5:17pm |
Have a MM man like mine. ALways AFTER the fact, examples, "I would have stayed all night but you made me mad, I was going to take you dancing but you were cranky, I was all ready to take you to Las Vegas but you started a fight". Isnt it funny how you have no clue he was going to do all this till AFTER the fact, after you sabatoaged it, man I have sabatoaged so much, he was going to move in with me but I fight too much with him. He was going to ask me to dinner but I did not pick up. He was going to leave the wife but I started a fight. Today, I actually crack up at his BULL, is that a sign of healing. I do not take it personal anymore I do not feel I am the reason this A has gone no where, in 5 year if he was going to leave he would have left. Has anyone got to the point of it being almost funny and when he tells you this you laugh in his face. The sad but funny part is I believed it for five years. I always ask him do you think I am stupid, hec yeah he does look at all the LIES I listened to and believed for years, of course he thinks I am stupid, it is my own fault, but no more! NOW he is just a pathetic joke! He never believes I am walking away because he calls me and I give in. I have never walked away but this time is different! I am walking away with a smile. Not angry anymore, is that normal!

FTM
NORMAL, to heck with NORMAL if this works for you that is good enough.
As the old saying goes "Laughter makes like a good medicine"
Free
RUN, don't walk...and don't look back or beat yourself up for staying for 5 years. He's history and life is ahead of you.
cl-nre
P.S. Answering your original post question, I never had any of my MWs or OWs act as your man did. Women are wired differently, talk differently and don't play that kind of silly after-the fact games......
"Men: can't keep'em and can't sell'em for parts"
~Fooled~
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This is a form of emotional manipulation, or emotional punishment. It's usually seen in parent-child relationships and is a way to make the receiver feel guilty or