Anyone else told they were not loved by xAP?
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|Wed, 08-08-2012 - 12:03am|
Just wondering if any others were told they were not loved, but it was just lust, or something similar by AP? I see a lot of AP's ended the A but maintained they did love you, but it wasn't going to work/couldn't leave partners/felt guilty etc.
It was indicated to me that it was love, then told "after soul searching, I feel it is just lust for me at this point" so I feel a bit "on my own" with that one!
Sorry, I am just trying to work out where I am and if these boards are right for me, I don't want to piss anyone off by not being strong right now.
It was AP that ended things with me, (EA, didn't get sexually physical) however, he would be up for FWB which I flatly refused. So, I guess I rejected him too, in that way, but I was not putting myself out there when told blunty it was not love.
UGH, just so confused about EVERYTHING and whether I should even be here!