Anyone have an affair with their ex-bf/ hs sweetheart while M?

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Registered: 02-13-2012
Anyone have an affair with their ex-bf/ hs sweetheart while M?
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Mon, 11-12-2012 - 9:16pm

I am at the stage of an emotional affair and my hs sweetheart ended before it started.  It never got physical but my question is something is missing from my marriage and I have tried to talk to my spouse.  I have been married six years with two small boys.  After talking do I suggest counseling? Do I get real with myself and ask for a separation start seeing a therapist individually to figure things out on my own.  I married for all the wrong reasons and although I love my husband he isn't my first choice.

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Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012

Hi DHW

I'd start individual counseling first so you can lay everything out on the table safely, get feedback, support and guidance regarding the direction you want to go.

Clarity

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