anyone know my tweener date?

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Registered: 10-17-2010
anyone know my tweener date?
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Sat, 01-15-2011 - 4:24pm

It would be after my stupid contact to him about my old friend.

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Registered: 10-19-2010
Sat, 01-15-2011 - 6:15pm
Hey Renewal!
I remembered that this happened just before thanksgiving...so used that as a reference and found this.

http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/General-Discussions/Honesty-Talked-to-Ex-ap-feel-ok-though/m-p/116211011#U116211011

So posted on Nov 23rd about breaking NC on the night of the 22nd.

I have to say that even though you used that conversation to move you forward that I have so much respect for you for knowing the need to reset your NC counter. After all these tweener wings that we earn are not simply for sticking around here and learning and participating for 3 months, but rather for making it 90 days with NO CONTACT!!!!

And as I recall you broke NC once before under the influence of ambian, and even though that time your xAP did not respond, you still felt necessary to hold yourself accountable for your actions. That says alot about your character Renewal. Not only are you committed to moving past this A, but also to changing your life so that this A was certain to be your last ever!

And yes, even though you have come such a very long, long way from NOLOVE4ME....and have been an amazing part of this community with your support and advice to others, as well as working so hard to understand your feelings, looks like you will have to wait until Feb. to earn those wings.

But not to worry, I will be here ready to welcome you with open arms. Just don't screw up again mmkay? :) Oh, and stay away from those damn pharmaceuticals!! LOL

Keep up the great work my friend...so proud of you.
peace&light
Foggy
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Sat, 01-15-2011 - 7:35pm
Great memory. Can I borrow your brain? Now I know who to ask the next time mine is on vacation. ;-)

You rock!
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 07-13-2010
Sat, 01-15-2011 - 8:30pm

Yay Renewal!!

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Sun, 01-16-2011 - 1:07pm

Renewal and ILL,

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its amazing how quick it flies when youre on the outside looking in.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Sun, 01-16-2011 - 1:24pm

Thnks so much!!

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Registered: 10-19-2010
Wed, 01-19-2011 - 2:17am
Sure thing. It is like a sponge...absorbs damn near everything. Too bad sometimes it takes a few days to wring it out!! LOL

And Renewal....damn straight PHEW!!! :)
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Wed, 01-19-2011 - 5:07am

Renewal,