Approval

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2010
Approval
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Thu, 09-30-2010 - 7:14am

So, I'm finally getting out of this funk that I've been in all week - and I've been thinking over a lot of things my T said on tuesday and I'm just curious if there is more info available that could help me to deal...



Basically T told me that for me it seemed that all issues stemmed from the need for approval - from my mother (my dad has already passed away), from STBX, but especially from xAP.

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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 7:49am

Lolly



I would LOVE to know the answer to this! I am also fairly confident- smart, reasonable attractive (low body image though as Im 'curvaceous'), popular, funny etc. But bugger me dead if I dont need approval ALL the time. I just dont understand it! My parents were great, my Dad said

You are what you consistently do
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009
In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 8:13am

I'm right there with you, Lolly.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 8:17am

Iggy,



you know it's funny - I found this online and could relate - it's definitely a need for approval issue with me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 9:20am

Lolly, thank you so much for that info.

Garfy


NC since 13 September 2010 and trying to feel great...


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Registered: 08-10-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 9:22am

heartache, this is exactly me!

Garfy


NC since 13 September 2010 and trying to feel great...


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