Are there any single OW's lurking?

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Are there any single OW's lurking?
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Tue, 05-04-2010 - 4:30pm

Correction...I meant single or divorced/separated XOWs. Seems like this has become a XWS board which is just fine, but sometimes I am not quite sure how to respond to H issues

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 04-15-2010
Tue, 05-04-2010 - 10:23pm

Hi,

I've been separated from my H of 13 years for almost a year, but continue to work on me with the hopes of this leading toward reconciliation.

TU.

LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
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Registered: 05-05-2010
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 2:15am
I just read this post. I posted just moments ago "trying" to tell my story as best I can. I am single no children which I desire to have one day.
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 12:24pm

Hello Ladies and Lurkers.

Come out...you are not alone. I am here...Welcome. I am Separated for over 3 years, almost D. Live in another state than H. 2 kids. Raising em is a challenge.

Iddy, you are right, this seems to be a MOW board as of late, when I joined there was more of a blend. Hope some lurkers come out. I am staying around either way, hope the MOW do not mind. I can relate to them entirely. I was M and I had an A when we were still together. I let that go. I licked it cold turkey. Almost killed me tho. Strange to be telling you all this here, now, at this time. Funny, I guess that is why I never claimed any excuses for the last A, even tho I did not know he was M. I felt like my previous behavior made me just like everyone else no matter the circumstance. So there it is.

Whew...that came out of nowhere...I feel like I just went to confession. Hail Mary's? Oh wait I am not Catholic anymore.

Single Ladies. COME OUT.

Luvin

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida