Are you ready for this???

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Registered: 10-08-2009
Are you ready for this???
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Fri, 04-23-2010 - 9:14pm
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Edited 4/28/2010 2:34 pm ET by jilly1983
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 7:34am

((Jilly))


I'm not going to ask you how you found this out, but take this information and run with it...as far away from Xmm as you can. ;-)


Being on this board for as long as I have, I can't tell you how many times I've read that the XAP has had numerous affairs. It is very jolting at first, but then once you really think about it, why would it be so surprising? Serial cheaters are a dime a dozen and while in one A, they already have their feelers out for their next vulnerable victim. It's a lifestyle for some people. They know they will never D, so it turns into a hunt and chase game so they can get that high that feeds their addiction. I am sorry you became one of his intended conquests, but this happens all of the time.


It shows you all the more that this was about his screwed up thinking than yours. Where you (and all of us) made our mistakes is thinking we were "all that" when in fact, we were just convenient and willing participants. We had to be hungry for something too in order to agree to being spoon fed by these predators.


Just let this information propel you even further down the road toward living a healthier and more honorable life.


((Hugs))

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 04-20-2009
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 9:55am

Jilly,
I'm with Iddy on not wanting to know how you found out, but I would like to suggest that, in addition to running as far away from xAP, you consider some serious pruning of your grapevine! The wine from those grapes is _toxic_!

Best,
Dee

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Registered: 10-08-2009
Mon, 04-26-2010 - 10:46am
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Edited 4/28/2010 2:34 pm ET by jilly1983