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| Wed, 09-02-2009 - 8:54pm |
I started you your own thread because you are deserving of one!
My exAP is my boss as well.
| Wed, 09-02-2009 - 8:54pm |
I started you your own thread because you are deserving of one!
My exAP is my boss as well.
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This is awesome Hope.
You are awesome! Great idea.
I already answered Awakening under the
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
htgb, great idea. I'm so thankful for the sisterhood of support that can be found here.
Awakening, please know we are all here for you.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Empowerment,
Great post!
Hi Hope
I dont even know where to start to express my appreciation for all the positive energy and reinforcement. Thank you to you Hope, BandK, E1 and Trixie ( another post) and anyone else i missed.
Awakening,
There is a lot of positive in your situation.
First, exAP expressed that this is very difficult for him as well.
Dear Hope
Thanks for pointing out the positives. I pray i feel that way soon!!!
Your absolutely right that i dont feel like a complete needy
Not trying to make things harder for you but this stood out to me
>>He said he is not angry at me; its just he can not speak to me anymore. He stated when i talk to him, he can not control his feelings for me so he can not be on friendly terms.<<
He seems to be doing the NC biz with you. I dont think that makes him manipulating (well, i hope not) but just maybe he is feeling the aftermath of the relationship and that is his way of dealing too. The NC rule is always the way to go so he may found out that its the best way also for him to deal. All that said, its good for you too in order for you to rebuild. You can now hope that he sticks to the LC/NC himself and you wont have to worry about future fishing attempts.
If he wont take your calls, try his way and email or voice record your work requests. If it can be functional for you then try it. He may decide that it is too hard to shut you off completely for work and realize how inconvenient work will be, but cross that bridge when you get to it.
Stay strong and blessings to you.
SB
Maybe its my ego getting the way. xMM is always initiating one more step to total NC and not me. I keep giving my power away, i keep giving it to xMM. How do you stop a bad bad habit?
I like the voice message idea.
You are in a hard place right now but truly I believe what does not kill us, makes us stronger. You are doing the best you can so dont feel so lousy. Keep your faith in yourself and post when you need a boost.
Hugs.
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