Bad Idea?

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Bad Idea?
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Thu, 10-28-2004 - 1:33pm
Have had NC for almost a week (as of tomorrow) after a stupid blow up about what I said to a third party and it got back to him (despite the fact that I TOLD him what I told her). I've been SOOOO good about NC, but it's KILLING me. So I've had this idea that what if I call him, when he answers say "sorry wrong number" and hang up. He knows he's 4 on my speed dial and I can profess I meant to call 7. Or he just won't answer at all. I don't know why, but I just can't seem to let go, even tho the NC on his part is pretty obvious he wants to end it. If I can go til Monday with NC, I'm getting me some Wendy's 99 cent menu items (my treat). Please help! Feel free to be as harsh as possible!
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Registered: 03-16-2004
In reply to: jelliebean22
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 1:37pm
And the point of this crank call is ?????????? Are you in 6th grade? ;-)

Seriously. I don't get what you want to accomplish.

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Registered: 07-08-2003
In reply to: jelliebean22
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 1:50pm
Dipss, give me back the 2x4, it's needed on this thread so much more. Honey, this is so juvenile (you said it was okay to be harsh). What is this going to accomplish? He's going to see right thru this. I'm sure he's not going to take this opportunity to tell you that he's all wrong about the A and wants to continue with it. This is not just a bad idea. This is a really #$%&* bad idea. JMHO. Love, Mo.

mo 7-18-10

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Registered: 09-28-2004
In reply to: jelliebean22
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 3:29pm
Okay, put the weapon down and take three steps back. Unlike dipss, I DIDN'T do it, I was just thinking about it. needed a few smacks to bring me back to reality. After mulling it over, I realized I just wanted to hear his voice, whether voicemail or real. I LOVE his voice. Everytime we argue I end up breaking the NC and he comes running back like a little puppy. But no more. Y'all are right I don't need to embarass myself like that. I just needed a little reality check. Thank you.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: jelliebean22
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 4:42pm
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Geez! I get it already! It was dumb. Anymore buses want to run over Dipss today??? (LOL)

You know Jellie, I am still holding onto that 2x4 so watch it. ;)

Dipss!



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Registered: 09-28-2004
In reply to: jelliebean22
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 5:19pm
No, no, s'okay. I'm over it. Now I'm just thinking of my chicken nuggets and fries on Monday.......can't see much else beyond that. hehehehehehehehehehehehehe MM meant soooo much to me, but can VERY easily be replaced by processed chicken-like meat and greasy fat ladden potatos.

Wish it was at LEAST Friday, SOOOOOOOOO want to get on with this week and get it OVER with.

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In reply to: jelliebean22
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 7:23pm


Good to know you did not break down, to crank call, sending him that "I am thinking of you, call me while I am weak, don't really want to continue NC" non-verbal message...

My most pertinent question is...why do you have to replace one bad habit to another (as a way to reward yourself)? Affair to grease-laden junk food...know what I mean? Why not treat yourself to a manicure, facial...enroll in a French/Spanish class, whatever...anything that would only improve yourself, make you feel better in the long run, on a consistent basis...

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Registered: 09-28-2004
In reply to: jelliebean22
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 10:30am
Cuz I LOVE food. And it's cheap and easy so I can get it anytime, but I never do. Just save it for a special little occassion. I already get my nails done every two weeks, and my feet in the summer. I only weigh 115 lbs, so it's not like I can't afford it plus I walk 2000 steps every night (cuz I LOVE walking too) and if I have anything fattening, I just walk more.

Doesn't matter, he broke NC last night. Maybe someday I'll be ready to end it for good. I am SOOOOOO weak tho.