Being Blackmailed

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Registered: 01-21-2010
Being Blackmailed
3
Thu, 01-21-2010 - 10:42pm
Stupidly had a 5 week affair with a married man, I'm married too.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2010
Thu, 01-21-2010 - 11:02pm

Horror of horrors!

Imustenjoypain!
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Registered: 01-21-2010
Thu, 01-21-2010 - 11:09pm

He said they are separated, he's in a different room.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 01-21-2010 - 11:38pm

Hi Piano,


This is the ugly side of As that does rear its head from time to time.


I remember asking my T as I ended my A before my D-day what should I do if xAP started threatening me. She said that would indicate that he was a controlling man and only wanted to lash out and hurt me because he was hurt. My T told me to tell him I had already told my H about the A (even though at that time I hadn’t and my D-day had not occurred). She said that calling his bluff would take away his thunder and any threat that he tried to hold over my head.


Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.