Being the other woman
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| Mon, 03-15-2004 - 4:45pm |
But my husband also had an affair where he lied to me to go out to dinner with her during the week, called her at night from his cell phone while walking the dog; planned a weekend away to santa barbara together (which he subsequently says never happened). He hid her phone numbers on his cell phone, disguising them as other people's names.
What are your thoughts, as another woman, as you meet a man at night knowing he is lying to his spouse and children?
I hate myself that all this has happened to me. My husband told this woman that he had never been alive in his life until he met her and that she was the most beautiful woman in the world. He told her the "images and sensations from last night" are consuming me. This is a man who has sex with me about 1 time a year.
I am an intelligent and beautiful woman. I have so much to give. I am strong but am in so much pain.

From your post I am going to assume that you are still married and working things out with H. Obviously you are still in pain.....I wish there were something that I could say to help. I was the married woman having an A with single OM, so my situation was different. Winds up XOM was seeing another married woman who knew about me. How Jerry is that?? Clarice just be grateful that you are no longer in the A....as far as your H having an A, is it over? Did you talk about it? Are you in therapy? You both need to decide that you are going to make your marriage work and that the A's are behind you. There is alot of forgiveness that has to happen.
Jazzdiva