On a better note!

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Registered: 06-17-2010
On a better note!
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Sat, 07-10-2010 - 7:43pm

Just thought I'd share...still in NC, 5 weeks and one day now, and something wonderful happened yesterday.

H travels a lot for his job and this week he put in long 16 hour days and he was gone three nights. He was tired when he got home, did comment on the fact he missed me and I looked nice (even in a pair of cut off shorts). As I was walking out the door for work about an hour later, he told me that he loved me. WOW. H is not a romantic guy and for him to tell me that was HUGE for me.

Anyway, it made my night! And on my 25 minute drive to work I did not think about xAP once. Again, another WOW!

Movingon at 50!

MovingON

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 8:26pm

(((Movingon)))


Glad to hear that you received some kudos from hubby. You know though, this man has always loved you, right? I know sometimes the words aren't forthcoming as often as you'd like, but remember that even though they were wonderful to hear, true love is more about actions. Just the fact that your man is working his butt off should tell you he loves you deeply.


(((Hugs)))


   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 06-17-2010
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 8:42pm

Yes Iddy, I do know that he loves me, even though he doesn't say it often. His work ethic speaks volumes!!! But it is really nice to hear at times.

With xAP, he was all talk. He constantly had the words I wanted to hear, but when when our A ended, he walked away without a word or action. And the 'action' xAP promised was not to live his life without me.

MO

MovingON

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Registered: 07-01-2010
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 9:39pm

Pure inspiration and hope for us in the early stages of NC2 ;) Thanks for sharing that!


I'm delighted things are moving on for you xx


PL x

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Registered: 02-02-2010
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 6:03pm

I am so happy to hear this. I took so much solace in my H's love post DDay and I felt so guilty- I felt I didn't deserve it. But now, what makes me feel the best, is when I do something really nice for my H. He appreciates it so much.

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/