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| Sun, 11-14-2010 - 7:42pm |
I thought I was doing ok...but after dinner i just lost it.
| Sun, 11-14-2010 - 7:42pm |
I thought I was doing ok...but after dinner i just lost it.
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Hi Honey, I'm here.
You were never free to be taken, or he available to give to you.
You both belonged in other worlds. Worlds with real families, real relationships, real troubles, real joy. Real Life.
That's the reality.
And soon, if you work hard enough to clear the fog and re-gain perspective you'll completely embody the knowledge, that the fantasy would never have made a good reality.
Seriously, what would you each have won? Someone capable & willing to go behind the backs of the one's who loved them the most. The one's you were each committed to. You would each be partnering another person who rather live in a fantasy world that take the dignified route of either ending your relationship, or sticking with the commitments you had each already made. We were all cowards. Sorry, but that IS the reality.
((hugs))
TU.
hi cloud!
i cant add much to what has already been said...just know we have all been there too!
Hey!!!! (((((((MC)))))))))))
THIS IS EXPECTED!!!!!!
If you're having this melt down of emotions...It's because you KNOW it's ending. So THAT's a good thing!
Its also normal to be so mad at yourself - turning it towards you because by putting it all on your shoulders - youre empowering yourself to fix, fix, fix it!
Why DID you ever get involved in something like this? That is an AWESOME! question to ask yourself ,one which with alot of time, input and reading here - you WILL get to the bottom of which is fantastic! So patience on THAT one. :)
Why doesnt he want me? OH HONEY!!! I KNOW! RIGHT??!?!? The question of VALIDATION of YOUR worth through someone else. As if
It hurts, MC. Your tears and sadness are so understandable. But you are going to be okay. I promise.
Thank you Melinda, Michelle, Cait and Always...
For all your love, support and insight.
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