birds of the same feather????

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
birds of the same feather????
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Mon, 05-10-2004 - 10:37am
I was thinking about some comments my OM made while we were in "NC" today morning. He told me indirectly that "some bad friends" were the cause of all the trouble in his realtionships.

However, I wonder if he wan't like them why would he be wanting to be friends with them in the first place. I can see they all can lie away like its nobody buisness - it a trait that he shares with them. He also has the same values when it comes to appearence and beuty. So, I wonder if all the "bad friends" thing is just a excuse. It makes me think I didn't think of why of this before. I mean don't birds of the same feather flock together??

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 6:44pm
Fish,

I hear ya! My OM also has these friends that I never approved of. I wish I had listened to my gut feeling bout his "dealings" with them. One of them was a former gf that he kinda "negelected" to tell. Now he confesses that they were an item! I wish these men would so stop lying to us. We are not that foolish... It doesn't take much to put two and two together. I know something was odd about his R with this one girl, turns out they were old flames. Anyway, All I can think of is Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish(es).

Juliet (no more)




Edited 5/10/2004 6:56 pm ET ET by julietsfate