Birdsong's a Vet!

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Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012
Birdsong's a Vet!
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Mon, 12-03-2012 - 9:48am

My first post didn't make it...so I am trying again.

*placing Medal around your neck...with a kiss to both cheeks*...Congratulations, Birdsong, for your arrival to Vetville!  You made it!  One year NC...one year affair free.

I was here throughout your entire journey.  I know it was not easy, but you did what you had to do...with a lot of rearranging of your life and some heavy-duty reflection...to get here.  

You openly shared yourself and always reached out to support others.  You've been such an asset to this Board.

I am so proud of you.  You rock!

((hugs))

Clarity

It was the link to the medal that caused a problem with the first post...so I am going to post this and then go in and edit to add link to medal.

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Avatar for happyasme
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Registered: 01-11-2012
Wed, 12-05-2012 - 9:19am

Congrats Bird and welcome toVetville!  It's been wonderful to read your story and your growth.  You struggle with much throughout, but you put in the work and now you are living th life of a woman of integrity and honnesty.

Have a wondrful trip in Korea

 

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Registered: 11-05-2012
Tue, 12-04-2012 - 3:24pm

Congratulations Bird!!!

Your struggle was a difficult one. You gave up so much with your music when you ended your A, but you have gained so much more!

Wear your medal proudly, you have earned it!

((hugs))

~~Noway~~

Forgiveness is the fragrance that the rose flower sheds on the heel that crushed it. ~unknown

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Registered: 12-13-2010
Tue, 12-04-2012 - 12:57pm

Wow.  Can't imagine a whole year....

Thank you for being on these boards and thank you for sharing your experience and your journey...and your strength.

~Sunrise

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Registered: 10-22-2012
Tue, 12-04-2012 - 7:19am

Hi Birdsong! Congratulations and well done you for achieving vethood, you are a star. Have a fabulous time in Korea with your hubby, it sounds like a really interesting place to go, and this new chapter in your life will be one of your best chaptersSmile

Love, Soglad x o x

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2009
Tue, 12-04-2012 - 7:11am
Hi birdsong! Well done you - its been a tough ride for you - but you've shown yourself to be a true fighter!! Have a great biz trip! I had my first biz trip overseas sínce I ended 1 month ago - I got so much more out of it post A, because my head wasn't down SMSing my xAP the whole time :-) Love WGO
Every recovery is a kind of rebirth
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Registered: 03-08-2011
Tue, 12-04-2012 - 6:38am

Congrats Birdsong, what a lovely place for you to be in! Enjoy your trip with DH, and your new perspective.

XO Daisy 

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Registered: 05-16-2011
Tue, 12-04-2012 - 4:02am

Congratulations Birdsong. Welcome to vetville. I hope you have an amazing time with your H even though it is a biz trip. :)

The core of who you are is not always obvious to everyone. But to believe what others may believe of you can cause you to deny yourself, the wonders, of who you really are.
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Registered: 04-23-2010
Mon, 12-03-2012 - 9:03pm

Congratulations.

A year that seemed so long to you, seems like you just arrived to me.

I am happy you made it.  Welcome to Vetville.

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2012
Mon, 12-03-2012 - 7:24pm

Congratulations Bird!  I've been following your story for a long time, you're such an inspiration.  

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2011
Mon, 12-03-2012 - 5:07pm
I hear all of you, and I wouldn't have made it here without you. I will never.forget the holidays last year. This year they will be so much better. I am flying to Korea on Wednesday for work. This will be the first time in many years where I could contemplate leaving my home without having to sanitize email, phone, and desk objects for my protection. I don't plan to die, but if I did, I could go being happy that I am leaving my life as an honest person, with no serets. That means more to me than I ever realized. It is my biz trip, but my H is coming with me. It is a new chapter. I will try to check in while I'm away. Meanwhile, thank you all for helping me save my life. --Bird

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