Bossin' you around!

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Bossin' you around!
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 8:39pm

Ok, Biatches. (this is me, trying to be all urbany and hip. Dig my bossy, gansta voice)

I am going home from work now. And when I get home, I'm going to cook dinner and drink wine. Then, then.... I'm a'gonna get on line and check this board. And when I do that, I'm going to see posts. lots of posts. posts in reply to _this_ post. posts that are allllll about what you, Newbie, Tweener, frickin' slackin' LURKER are going to do tomorrow to make our CL Leader proud of you! (All hail da Cheifette, Iddy!) You heard me!! Proud!

I don't want to hear any whining. I don't want to hear any pouting. I sure as H.E.L.L. don't want to hear any selfish, backsliding BS or "oh, but I loves him" "it was loooooove." make-me-gack shmaltz.

I'm pretty sure if y'all don't start pulling it together, either for yourselves or for your fellow enders, God's going to call Iddy home. And by 'home' I don't mean _heaven_, or anything like that... no, more like home (to sit on the couch and eat potato chips and shiz). Don't let this happen.

(haven't had any wine yet, so just imagine how pissy I'm going to be by 9pm pst! scary!)

Dee, Tweener 1st Class (er, or NO Class!) ha.

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Registered: 10-04-2009
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:13pm

Dee -


Right on Sista!

NC since October 2, 2009.

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Registered: 10-21-2009
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:15pm

Dee, I'm totally with you on that one. I don't post that much but could not beleive what EAS have become lately with all that self-pity and whining and "can't do it" attitude, and "it's bigger than me" and "NC day number whatever is broken again". So what if he fishes, emails, IM's, stops by, flirts, etc? Who gives a flying f*k? He can do whatever he seems fit. We're responsible for ourselves and our own actions.

Grrr. (having a glass of wine myself) :)

xoxo
Gone

**Bloodied but unbowed**
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:24pm

Hi Dee,


I totally understand your frustration and I have new found respect for people like Iddy and Empowerment and Clarity and Lynn who hear it over and over and overagain and still keep coming back and supporting those of us who are in that confused crisis state. It was difficult for me to see so

I deserve my Dignity.
NC since 2/4/2010
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:41pm

*in my most non-whitegirl voice possible (which isn't sayin much)*


HOLLA'!

Imustenjoypain!
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:50pm
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Edited 3/13/2010 3:59 pm ET by hazelrose2009
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:55pm

hazel~

You go girl!!! Great job, and great start.

Believe in yourself...believe in what you're doing and what you're trying to achieve :) Don't lose sight of those goals!!

You CAN do this!!!

Be Strong :)

xx

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 10:07pm

Deeulta,

GREAT POST!! I love it

I dont even have to try to sound gansta...got a lil gangsta in me since birth...but thats not the point..

I am going to get up, take my kids to school, sing the latest hip hop and R & B F*ck EM GIRL MUSIC on my iphone as I run outdoors for 2-3 miles. I am then going to come home and write a kick ass brief for court so that I win my motion in front of a judge. I then am going to pick up those kids that I enjoy so much these days and then come home and get ready for a dinner with a good friend and enjoy some live jazz and maybe some wine....maybe I will even dance, who knows? My Doc says do what I want to as I am comfortable and I am feeling really pretty and really special these days...

I am going to walk with my head held high and smile and know that I am FLY and no one will every be able to make me feel less than....cuz I got swagger and pimp juice (let me know if I need to explain) that can not be contained....

I am going to get out my house and have some fun...I am going to laugh and I am going feel like all the BS of the last 3 months is OVA!! Because it is!! It's called the past cuz I am getting past and I aint nothing like I was before....U outta see me now!!

Luvin aka "Fly Girrrrl"

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 10:11pm

Girrrrl,

I am so proud...F*ck em girl. F*ck em....GOOD JOB!!! Proud of you mama....keep it up and you will be a tweener before you say HOLLA...lol

Luvin

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 10:18pm

yo yo
holla atcha grrrrrl here!
i KNOW you aint talkin to ME when you talkin' backslidin' bullsh!ttin', "i loves that man" mess. hell to da NO!
mad props to dee--she be keepin' it real.
tomorrow i ain't cavin'. day after neithah.

lillie :)

silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard. ...
silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard. ...
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 12:15am

Holla! whoop, whoop!!! that's what I'm talking about.
I am woman, hear me roooooar and shiz!
Go, Girls!!!

Love it,
Dee

Ps. went straight for the tequila!

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