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| Mon, 02-22-2010 - 8:39pm |
Ok, Biatches. (this is me, trying to be all urbany and hip. Dig my bossy, gansta voice)
I am going home from work now. And when I get home, I'm going to cook dinner and drink wine. Then, then.... I'm a'gonna get on line and check this board. And when I do that, I'm going to see posts. lots of posts. posts in reply to _this_ post. posts that are allllll about what you, Newbie, Tweener, frickin' slackin' LURKER are going to do tomorrow to make our CL Leader proud of you! (All hail da Cheifette, Iddy!) You heard me!! Proud!
I don't want to hear any whining. I don't want to hear any pouting. I sure as H.E.L.L. don't want to hear any selfish, backsliding BS or "oh, but I loves him" "it was loooooove." make-me-gack shmaltz.
I'm pretty sure if y'all don't start pulling it together, either for yourselves or for your fellow enders, God's going to call Iddy home. And by 'home' I don't mean _heaven_, or anything like that... no, more like home (to sit on the couch and eat potato chips and shiz). Don't let this happen.
(haven't had any wine yet, so just imagine how pissy I'm going to be by 9pm pst! scary!)
Dee, Tweener 1st Class (er, or NO Class!) ha.

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Dee,
Yo lemme holla at ma grill rit kwik. Even dough I aint No Holla back girrrl!
Listen here. I know I ain’t been here in a minute but I had to check out da headen cause I was like what M efin board am I on? Last time I seen dis much BS was when Kanye grabbed
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Seriously.....???!!!!!
You girls have surely done my head in tonight! Being an Aussie girl has its moments, one of those being right now....
I have no idea what you are all talking about!!! Just trying to translate E1's post made me want to go crack a bottle of vodka and some cranberry juice (with ice of course)
I think I'm getting the gist of it though....
;-) thanks guys
Be Strong
xx
ahahahahhahahaha!
you out-gansta everybody!
Loves it!
Loves YOU.
Dee
Gangsta Dee and Sistahs,
I live in Detroit, for Pete's sake, and do you think I understood 1/2 of the stuff you girls wrote? All I know is that is sounded funny and I was jealous over all the glasses of wine going down too,
~Iddy~
I am sooooo glad that someone wrote a post like this. I came to EAS back in the day and the women on the board at that time kicked me in my sorry broken arse and told me to get off my butt and leave that woman's H alone. There was no hand holding. They told me like it IS-was and it was just what I needed to clear my head of the fog and realize how broken and stupid I really was at that time. I remember one post where one of the wonderful ladies asked me one question "Why was I choosing to self-destruct." I will never forget thinking about what she wrote about me choosing my bad behavior.
These days women come to this board and sometimes I feel like it is an extension of MAS. They whine and feel sorry for themselves so much and for so long that it makes me sick.
We all made a choice to get involved with someone we knew was M to someone else. The MM we were seeing came to us on day one as a liar and cheater with no morals and we liars and cheaters as well. Two birds of a feather.
Arg. Ik,r! (that's "I know, riiight?")
I am guilty of whining. I am guilty of handholding, too, probably. Thank goodness E1, Iddy, Clarity and others knocked me up side my head early on.
It's a blessing and a curse that the oldtimers move on with their lives and leave the board. We're really lucky some stay and volunteer so much time and love for us.
Maybe we should start a Hard Knocks thread. A total "Calling You on Your Sh*t" post.
xo
Dee
Hey Sha-Dee-Qua,
Glad I could make you laugh! That was a lil Southern-Fried meets gansta rap wit a Jamaican Twist. I put a lil somthan-somthan on the end for ya Dee!
Iddy and BeStrong no worries if you did not get the translation.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Dee Gurl (: and All.....
I had to stop even looking at EAS for a week or two now cuz I couldn't take the pity party of the "I just can't let my soulmate goooooooooooooooo." Yuck. I was thinking I had to move over to another board or somethin'......Dee, I'm glad you took the bull by the horns!
I've done my share of romanticizing this crap...I was all, "I can't live without him"......But last week I did my sh*t. I went to a week long Love Addiction intensive at The Meadows in Arizona--intensive therapy for 8 hours/day all geared toward breaking the FANTASY. All geared toward fantasy is fake, that the real work of this affair crap is digging deep within and purging the demons. I worked my ass off. And guess what? I'm proudly now 9 days NC and the fantasy is cracked and busted. Now, I look back on my whining words with disgust. I'm done with the freaking stalking like behavior. I'm working at me.
Holy cow--I'm a wus, and if I can do it....anyone can. My marriage is at the ground floor after d-day and yet my spirit isn't broken. Kinda feel like I'm learning to fly again. And in the process of this ending, I started realllllyyyyy medicating with wine. It was my new addiction. And I have even pulled the plug on that. I'm starting to go to 12 step meetings. (Something my Love Addiction therapists insist are CRUCIAL to affair recovery---think CODA).
That's not to say I don't have a million triggers and a million runaway thoughts---but by golly I'm now respecting myself enough not to be a lying fool.
Deep breath..................
((((hugs)))
LL
Welcome Back Lifelesson and Congrats on your 9 days NC.
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