Boundaries

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Boundaries
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 12:18pm

Hi All,

Just wanted to mention that if you are male and have sent me a message off board, I’m sorry but I’m not comfortable responding to you off board. Part of my growth after the A was setting new boundaries and with that I don’t do any IMing or emailing with anyone of the opposite sex unless they are family or friends with my DH also. Please do not take it personal as it is not personal simply a firm boundary that I have established

However, if you feel comfortable bringing your question here to the board, I’d be happy to give my input in this public forum.

Ladies and gents just a gentle reminder. Ending an A and going NC is only part of the healing process. It is really important to re-evaluate what your boundaries are and

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 1:54pm

Well look at our little E1, all grown up!

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 2:03pm

BOUNDARIES SAVE US.

I enjoy seeing this level of mental HEALTH in the group Im so proud to be a part of.

2 cents,

Michelle

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010