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Break up question
| Mon, 01-10-2005 - 12:35pm |
I was just curious about something. I am not sure how to word this so please be patient. Do you think that a break up is easier or less painful or whatever if your MM leaves his wife for you, you live together and then realize it isn't going to work out and break up then? Or if you end the affair before he leaves and you never know if it would have worked out?

More painful for who? You, or the OM?
1T

MSI think you end the affair because you're tired of lying and skulking in order to settle for snippets of time.
If xMM REALLY wants to have a full ife with you, he certainly knows, RIGHT NOW, what it takes to leave his current wife, file for divorce, get his life setled in order to have a life with you......
BTDT
I suggest you start by dating the guy AFTER the divorce is final and don't be too hasty to move in with him. Take the time to get to know ALL of him, not just the "best behavior" you see while inside the affair.