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| Tue, 02-08-2011 - 6:53am |
I am ashamed and embarrassed to be coming back to the board asking permission to be part of this community again.
| Tue, 02-08-2011 - 6:53am |
I am ashamed and embarrassed to be coming back to the board asking permission to be part of this community again.
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Hugs to you
Mom, I really appreciated this posting on Narcissism.
Ill come back and respond more thoughtfully WIWWM -
Welcome Back!!!!
Dont worry - or beat up on yourself - It wasn't your time before.
NOW is all you HAVE,
WELCOME BACK!!
Please stay and post as much as you need to ...
and just a warning - if * you're* wasting energy trying to diagnose ex-AP, remember that we too were 'unavailable' cake-eaters for the most part, playing a performance of the all-loving partner to get the ego strokes we needed ... lying to those we most loved and who depended on us, and/or helping someone WE said we loved to become the worst of themselves to meet our needs.
Gosh, what does that make us?
Reflect on the self ... it is the only one you/we need to figure out.
Everything else is just a distraction and deflection from taking personal accountability for our own hurt.
WE all knew what we were doing was wrong, hurtful and deceptive ... we did it anyways.
Much care,
TU.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
I got an awesome post on serial cheaters that I have posted several times, good stuff! really good, may be the same as what you got from always?
Always? if it is not, let me know and I will dig it up...it helped me immensely...I stopped taking things so personally
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
I think it was TU who posted the narcassist article. I didn't post anything like that, that I can recall.
I totally agree and I own my part in this.
Ooops someone did.
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