Can you answer this??

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Registered: 07-30-2004
Can you answer this??
Thu, 09-02-2004 - 1:45am
Sometimes spending too much time with self-pity can cause us all to end back up at square one. Self-pity is quite normal, but at some point we have to pick ourselves up and realize that there is a whole world out there waiting to be explored. No one here, myself included will ever fully grow up, simply because no one ever does. We all spend until eternity learning and growing. The problem is we dont spend enough time looking at what we DO have in our lives and growing and building with that. We whine and wimper over what we don't have or what we lost. Nothing that we lose is lost forever. Just simply temporarily misplaced. If we fell out of love with our H, then that means a new found love will come one day. An AVAILABLE love. If you are still in love with your H, then find the happiness that seemed to have gotten misplaced over the years. With efforts and hard work, anything can be accomplished. ANYTHING.

I want to take this time to get everyones mind on some positive thoughts and also thoughts of reality. Just a little questionaire.

1. What was your first reaction when your husband proposed?

2. What love song most reminds you of your H/SO?

3. If you thought you wouldn't have your husband/significant other tomorrow, what would you want most to tell him today?

4. What is something positive that you have said about yourself this week?

5. When was the last time you ate ice cream and watched a comedy movie?

6. If you are not Married, what do you do alone for fun?

7. If you are not married, do you ever want to be married?

8. What is the most positive thing that your H/SO said to you lately about you? And you to them?

9. If you could change one thing about you that is negative, into a positive, what would it be?

10. What is the one thing that is most positive that you learned about yourself during your A?

11. What personal gain did you get from the A? Was it worth it?

12. Last, If you could put your past behind you, what would you do to start a bright future today?

I would love to get everyones answers. When answering, I would really love for everyone to think of things that is within your power to accomplish. When you respond, maybe print your response out and put it in a safe place and when you need a reminder of what things positive are in your life, or things that you want to accomplish, you will have this to look back on....

Keep up your strength.... everyone here is smart, intelligent, beautiful, and strong... Your life will ALWAYS be exactly what YOU make of it. YOU have control!!

Hugs,

H2H