I'm new here so I have been hesitant to give any advice, but to your question I feel like I can offer something. A week ago I was exactly where you are. Wondering if I could end this A when I still wanted it so bad. Yes, you can end it before you are ready. I am a walking example of that. I didn't want it to end, but I knew it had to be done. Its hard. Its really hard, but you have to start thinking about what you want. I know it's scary, but in the end we all know it is the right thing to do.
You can start NC. All that's left to do is do it. If you need someone to talk to you can contact me. I know how you are feeling.
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Great post, BD. I'm am so glad that you are back again. I missed you!
((Hugs))
PS: To Ajaycee - what
~Iddy~
I'm new here so I have been hesitant to give any advice, but to your question I feel like I can offer something. A week ago I was exactly where you are. Wondering if I could end this A when I still wanted it so bad. Yes, you can end it before you are ready. I am a walking example of that. I didn't want it to end, but I knew it had to be done. Its hard. Its really hard, but you have to start thinking about what you want. I know it's scary, but in the end we all know it is the right thing to do.
You can start NC. All that's left to do is do it. If you need someone to talk to you can contact me. I know how you are feeling.
Thanks, Iddy.
Thanks for all the wonderful responses!
Ajaycee -
I am now late for a meeting, but I have a few things to say because your post really concerns me.
Tough love is what it's going to take to kick me in the butt right back to where I need to be!
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